18 months

You would think that after going through the 18 month stage, I would know what to expect and know how to deal with this terrible busy and annoying stage. Well, the truth is, I have forgotten, and I did need to seek the professionals at babycenter.com Here is what they say about this age.

How your toddler's growing: You may observe a spurt in physical development this month. Your toddler is surer on her feet, loves to climb all over your furniture, and can connect with a kick ball if she concentrates hard enough. She can also hold in her mind a clear memory of an object well after you remove it from her vision. Take advantage of this new capability by playing hide-and-seek with her favorite toy.

There may be days when all that physical energy is more than you can handle. Rather than fight it — after all, you can't do anything to change it — flip on some music, grab your little one, and invent some new dance steps together.

How your life's changing: As your child's "no's" come more frequently, so will your questions about how to discipline her. Set clear limits by telling her what is and is not acceptable behavior. She won't always remember what you've said, but with repetition she'll start getting the idea. And do your best to set a good example; model the kindness, respect, and good manners you'd like to see her demonstrate.

They left out the parts about the constant whinning, fussing, crying, and driving their mother crazy!!! The constant exploring (which means destroying), testing limits, and defiant behavior has reached my breaking point. This little cutie is a stinker!