
I've been able to catch the Super Nanny more often since it's on the Style network at night, and I've really come to appreciate that show. In every episode, I find something I do wrong, and sometimes, on a good day- things that I do right. And then, there are some things she does that I just don't have the energy or will power to be consistent with, but overall, she has great parenting advice. I also appreciate the variety in the ages she works with. I try to take mental notes of what it might be like when they are all teenagers and I am all strung out with worry, so I can instill some of her strategies there too.
What she does seems so simple and rational. I shake my head and think, "of course you can do it- they are not your kids and you get to leave." But so far the best advice I have gotten from the show, the one thing I repeat to myself over and over again is: Respond, DON'T React! (I even like to say it in a British accent- it makes it more effective I think!)
I am a reactor, sometimes I am an explosive one, and its the one thing I am trying hard to change. I would never do it to anyone else's children, and I cringe when I see other parents do it to their own, so why do I do it? I have to change it!
So, if you've never seen the show, check it out, and please share what great parenting advice you have gotten from it!
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